The Raccoon Tail -
This is what it means to travel in the family you grew up in. Family reunions where they are thrilled to see you but nobody brought anything to DO, trips that take a long time in the car but you have a lot of books. There is always a pool, you realize later that had a lot to do with you. Sometimes you and your dad go swimming without mom. It is just what it means to travel in your family.
The Places They Have Never Seen -
Somebody in your family picks you up so you can go away and try to put down parts of yourself. You pretend to know about Warren Zevon and Jethro Tull until you actually did know about them. Learning about walking out a hotel by yourself and still managing to get back. Coming home and telling your parents about a place they’ve never seen before.
I’ll take one ticket (or two) -
You’re doing it for real now. Traveling. With your own money, taking time off of your own job, making the plans, and learning your airport. Vegas because you’re supposed to, Barbados because it is fun to say, Savannah because of the book, because it is warm, and you might want to live there some day. Panic hits in Savannah, it was too soon to go away, and the rescue comes at the airport in the middle of the night when your night-owl best friend arrives with cigarettes and enough room for you and your suitcase.
Come on, it’ll be fun -
It is a weekend, or a week, or a month. You make sure there is a pool, and maybe a park too. It is more than one suitcase and more than one ticket but you have company that makes you laugh and is brave enough to mention that you should eat instead of just hissing at them. He naps in the backseat, and you mourn the loss of map reading while your phone helps you navigate. It just what it means to travel in your family.
The Well Worn Seat -
Some random day that you didn’t even notice pass was the day that traveling was done. I mean, you *could* with some help – but with all the gear, and how easy you get tired, or cold, or sore it wouldn’t be worth it. It might have been London you missed out on – but they never even knew to miss you. A ride north a few hours in the fall maybe, see the colors and stay the night. Maybe, but the leaves will change color here too so maybe you’ll just wait.
All of this because I got off the phone with my mom, thought of a raccoon tail tied to the back of a bike, and thought of Jeff. I’m feeling deeply sentimental about all the parts of my life today.